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· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

When it comes to Middle Eastern desserts, two names stand out as both exquisite and deeply rooted in the region's culinary traditions: baklawa and halvada. These sweet treats are renowned for their intricate preparation methods and the lavish use of one particular ingredient – pistachios. In September, I ate several Middle Eastern desserts, halvada in Jordan and Turkish baklawa.

Baklawa: A Turkish Treasure

I had the privilege of savoring Turkish baklawa from Hafiz Mustafa 1864, and it was a revelation in taste and texture. Interestingly Hafiz Mustafa 1864 is also available on Amazon. Baklawa is a rich pastry made from layers of thin phyllo dough, generously filled with a mixture of crushed pistachios, sugar, and a hint of cinnamon. The layers are meticulously brushed with clarified butter before baking to a golden perfection. What sets Turkish baklawa apart is the use of top-quality pistachios that give it a distinctively nutty, buttery, and slightly sweet flavor.

Baklawa from Hafiz Mustafa 1864, September 2023

Halvada: A Jordanian Delight

During my visit to Petra in Jordan, I had the opportunity to taste halvada, a traditional Middle Eastern sweet that has its roots in the region's ancient culinary heritage. Halvada, also known as halawet el jibn, consists of a delicate, thin layer of sweetened cheese dough that is filled with a mixture of finely ground pistachios and sugar. The dough is carefully rolled into small cylinders, creating bite-sized delights that are both visually stunning and incredibly delicious. The pistachios in Jordanian halvada provide a pleasant contrast to the sweet cheese filling, making it a perfect treat to savor with a cup of fragrant Arabic coffee.

Halvada in Petra, September 2023

A Pistachio Paradise

One common thread that binds these Middle Eastern desserts is the lavish use of pistachios. Known as "green gold" in the Middle East, pistachios add a unique nuttiness and vibrant color to these sweet creations. The pistachios used in Middle Eastern desserts are often grown locally, ensuring freshness and quality that is hard to match. Their rich, earthy flavor complements the sweetness of the desserts, creating a harmonious balance that is simply irresistible.

Divergence from Indian Desserts

While Indian desserts are undeniably sweet and delicious, they tend to rely heavily on ingredients like milk, ghee (clarified butter), and a variety of spices such as cardamom and saffron. In contrast, Middle Eastern desserts like baklawa and halvada are characterized by their delicate layers, use of phyllo dough, and the prominence of pistachios, offering a different flavor profile and texture altogether.

A Contrast to European Desserts

European desserts, with their emphasis on chocolate, cream, and butter, can often be decadent and heavy. Middle Eastern desserts, on the other hand, strike a balance between sweetness and nuttiness, making them a lighter yet equally satisfying option. The use of pistachios in Middle Eastern sweets sets them apart from the predominantly chocolate-centric European offerings.

In conclusion, baklawa and halvada are not just desserts; they are a reflection of Middle Eastern culinary artistry. Their intricate preparation, emphasis on pistachios, and distinct flavors make them a must-try for anyone exploring the region's gastronomy. While they differ from Indian and European desserts, their uniqueness adds a delightful dimension to the world of sweet indulgence. Whether you're in Istanbul or Petra, don't miss the opportunity to experience these Middle Eastern delights for yourself.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Do you ever find yourself wandering down memory lane, only to be transported back to the carefree days of your youth with just a few notes of a song? Music has an incredible power to evoke emotions and memories, and the songs from our childhood hold a special place in our hearts. They're like a time machine, capable of taking us back to those simpler times, even if just for a moment.

A Trip Down Memory Lane

As I was recently cooling down after a refreshing run, I decided to put on some music to unwind. Little did I know that this impromptu playlist would turn into a mesmerizing journey through my past. The first few chords of a song from The Doors transported me straight back to my teenage years. Suddenly, I was cruising in my first car, windows down, music blaring, and not a care in the world.

The power of music to rekindle memories is truly astonishing. Each song was like a time capsule, taking me back to a specific moment or phase of my life. Pink Floyd's ethereal melodies reminded me of late-night conversations with friends under the stars, while Linkin Park's high-energy tracks catapulted me into the midst of my angsty teenage years.

The Timeless Appeal of Old Bands

One of the remarkable things about the music from our childhood is its ability to remain relevant across generations. Some bands, no matter how old or defunct, still resonate with audiences today. The longevity of their music is a testament to its enduring quality.

The Doors, with their distinctive blend of rock and psychedelic sound, continue to captivate listeners with tracks like Light My Fire and Riders on the Storm. Pink Floyd's Comfortably Numb and Wish You Were Here are timeless classics that transcend time and space. Even Linkin Park's powerful anthems, like In the End and Numb are just as impactful today as they were when they were first released.

Rediscovering Hidden Gems

My journey through the music of my past didn't stop at the well-known classics. I stumbled upon some lesser-known gems that had me grooving and reminiscing in equal measure. Jay-Z's lyrical prowess and Jal's emotional melodies took me back to my college days, complete with late-night study sessions and impromptu road trips.

What started as a simple post-run cooldown turned into a musical time-traveling adventure that lasted for an hour and a half. It was an hour and a half spent cherishing old music, old memories, and the magic of a bygone era.

New music is constantly vying for our attention, but at times it's great to take a step back and revisit the music that shaped us during our formative years. The songs from our childhood have a unique ability to transport us back in time, to a place where the world was simpler, and life's challenges seemed more manageable.

So, the next time you find yourself in need of a mental break or a trip down memory lane, consider putting on some of the old bands that made your youth unforgettable. Let music be your time machine, taking you back to the days of innocence and discovery. It's a therapy that's not only enjoyable but also deeply rejuvenating for the soul.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

In a quiet neighborhood in Gurgaon's Nirvana Country, a gathering took place recently. It wasn't your typical business meeting or a formal networking event. Instead, it was an informal meetup of ten entrepreneurs, all alumni of IIT Bombay. These entrepreneurs, with diverse backgrounds and experiences, came together to share their stories, discuss challenges, and explore potential collaborations in the world of startups.

Diverse Backgrounds, Common Goals

The gathering was hosted at the home of Utkarsh Singhai, a newcomer in the entrepreneurial world who had recently launched a tech-driven organic marketing startup. The attendees included a mix of serial entrepreneurs, individuals with experience in well-funded startups across India, and newcomers eager to make their mark. What was noteworthy was the range of industries represented, from insurance-tech to healthcare, and more.

After some initial introductions, the evening began with entrepreneurs sharing their stories. These were not just tales of success, but accounts of resilience, creativity, and the relentless pursuit of innovation.

Discovering Common Challenges

As conversations flowed, common challenges in the entrepreneurial journey began to emerge. Whether it was customer acquisition, funding, team building, or navigating complex regulations, everyone had a story to tell and wisdom to share. It became evident that this gathering was more than just a meetup; it was a support system and a network of like-minded individuals ready to help each other overcome obstacles.

Fostering Collaboration

The meetup went beyond storytelling and commiseration over shared challenges. It marked the start of potential collaborations. Entrepreneurs with complementary skills and businesses found common ground to explore partnerships that could benefit their ventures mutually. Brainstorming sessions were filled with the exchange of ideas, offers of mentorship, and the promise of future collaborations.

The informal meetup of entrepreneurs in Gurgaon was the first kind of an event; it might be beginning of the power of community and collaboration. In the often isolating world of entrepreneurship, these individuals found solidarity in their shared experiences and ambitions. They departed with new connections, fresh perspectives, and a renewed sense of purpose. As they said their goodbyes, it was evident that the seeds of future partnerships had been sown. The impact of this meetup would continue to resonate in the world of Indian startups. It serves as a reminder that success in entrepreneurship isn't just about individual achievements but also about the strength of a supportive community.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Jordan, a land of extraordinary natural beauty and diverse landscapes, is a dream destination for adventure seekers and avid travelers. During my journey earlier this month through this captivating country, I was spellbound by the mesmerizing terrain that unfolded before me. From desert sands to towering mountains and the azure sea, Jordan's landscapes are a true marvel.

Jordan Driving Trip, September 2023

Driving Through Jordan's Varied Terrain

As I went on my road trip adventure in Jordan, I couldn't help but be awestruck by the ever-changing landscapes. The country offers a unique blend of terrains that cater to every traveler's appetite for exploration.

  • Desert Landscapes: Driving through the vast desert expanses of Wadi Rum was a surreal experience. The otherworldly red sands, colossal rock formations, and endless dunes create an almost Martian landscape. It's no wonder that Wadi Rum is often referred to as the "Valley of the Moon."

  • Mountainous Wonders: The journey led me to the rugged mountains of Dana Biosphere Reserve and the stunning views from the King's Highway. The winding roads carved through ancient rocks offered breathtaking vistas at every turn.

  • Coastal Beauty: The road eventually led to Jordan's picturesque coastline along the Red Sea. The crystal-clear waters and vibrant coral reefs make it a paradise for snorkeling and diving enthusiasts.

  • Border Adventure: One of the highlights of my trip was driving along the border with Israel. The sense of adventure and the breathtaking landscapes along this route were truly remarkable. The stark contrast between the arid desert and the lush green fields on the Israeli side was a sight to behold.

The Trusty Nissan Sunny

To explore the diverse terrains of Jordan, I ended up renting a Nissan Sunny from a local car rental company - Autonation via Discover Cars. The car was not only reliable but also surprisingly well-managed, which is crucial for long journeys. It handled the winding mountain roads fine and desert tracks with ease, offering a comfortable and smooth ride throughout the trip. The underpowered feeling was particularly evident when maneuvering uphill to reach some of Petra's less accessible sites. While the car eventually conquered these challenging climbs, it did require a bit of patience and careful driving to navigate through the rugged terrain.

Jordan's diverse terrain offers an unforgettable journey for adventurers and nature enthusiasts. From the enchanting deserts to the majestic mountains and the captivating coastline, each landscape tells a unique story. Driving along the border with Israel was a highlight, offering a once-in-a-lifetime experience. If you're planning your own Jordanian adventure, be sure to hit the road and discover the astounding beauty that this country has to offer. Your journey through the amazing terrain of Jordan will undoubtedly be etched in your memory forever.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Nepal, a land of serene beauty and rich cultural heritage, is home to an ancient art form that has fascinated travelers for centuries - Mandala painting. I learnt at Bhaktapur Durbar Square the meticulous process behind creating these intricate works of art, as well as the profound reasons and prayers associated with them, all of which aim to enhance human wellbeing.

Mandala Painting: An Art of Precision

Our guide at Bhaktapur Durbar Square, took us through the cobbled streets of Bhaktapur Durbar Square, and showed us the skilled artisans hunched over their canvases, meticulously crafting mandalas. Each stroke was deliberate, each color chosen with care. It was evident that this art form demanded unwavering attention to detail and precision.

Mandala Painting, 10 September 2023

The creation of mandalas is not just about aesthetics; it's a spiritual journey. The intricate patterns and meticulous craftsmanship reflect the belief that the process of creating these works of art is as important as the end result. It's a form of meditation for the artists, a way to connect with the divine, and a means to channel positive energy into the universe.

The Reasons and Prayers Behind Mandala Painting

In Nepal, mandalas are not mere decorations; they hold deep spiritual significance. These circular designs symbolize the universe, representing the interconnectedness of all things. They are often used as tools for meditation and are believed to promote healing and self-discovery.

During my visit, I learned that mandalas are created with specific intentions. Artists infuse their work with prayers for human wellbeing, peace, and harmony. It's a way to send positive energy and intentions out into the world. As I watched the artists at work, I couldn't help but feel the sense of tranquility and serenity that enveloped the square.

Human Wellbeing and Mandala Painting

The prayers and intentions embedded in mandala painting are aimed at enhancing human wellbeing. They serve as a reminder that we are all interconnected, and by promoting positivity and balance in the universe, we can improve our own lives as well.

As I left after observing the Mandala Painting, I carried with me not only the visual beauty of mandala paintings but also the spiritual and emotional depth behind them. It was a reminder of the power of art to transcend the superficial and touch the soul.

Mandala painting in Bhaktapur Durbar Square is a testament to the harmonious blend of art, spirituality, and culture in Nepal. It's a tradition that has survived the test of time and continues to inspire awe in those who witness its creation. These intricate artworks, with their meticulous craftsmanship and profound prayers, offer not just visual delight but also a deeper connection to the essence of human wellbeing.

· 4 min read
Gaurav Parashar

India, the land of diversity, is a country that boasts a breathtaking blend of cultures, landscapes, and traditions. From the snow-capped peaks of the Himalayas to the sun-kissed beaches of Goa, India offers an astonishing variety of experiences within its vast expanse. Despite the country's rich tapestry of offerings, I've only had the privilege of exploring a fraction of its beauty. So far, I've only journeyed through 11 states and 4 Union Territories out of the 28 states and 8 Union Territories that make up our incredible nation.

NoTypeStateCapitalTravelled To?Visited the Capital?
1StateAndhra PradeshAmaravatiNoNo
2StateArunachal PradeshItanagarNoNo
3StateAssamDispurNoNo
4StateBiharPatnaNoNo
5StateChhattisgarhRaipurNoNo
6StateGoaPanajiYesYes
7StateGujaratGandhinagarNoNo
8StateHaryanaChandigarhYesYes
9StateHimachal PradeshShimlaYesYes
10StateJharkhandRanchiNoNo
11StateKarnatakaBangaloreYesYes
12StateKeralaThiruvananthapuramNoNo
13StateMadhya PradeshBhopalYesNo
14StateMaharashtraMumbaiYesYes
15StateManipurImphalNoNo
16StateMeghalayaShillongNoNo
17StateMizoramAizawlNoNo
18StateNagalandKohimaNoNo
19StateOdishaBhubaneshwarNoNo
20StatePunjabChandigarhYesYes
21StateRajasthanJaipurYesYes
22StateSikkimGangtokNoNo
23StateTamil NaduChennaiNoNo
24StateTelanganaHyderabadYesYes
25StateTripuraAgartalaNoNo
26StateUttarakhandDehradunYesNo
27StateUttar PradeshLucknowYesNo
28StateWest BengalKolkataNoNo
29Union TerritoryAndaman and Nicobar IslandsPort BlairNoNo
30Union TerritoryChandigarhChandigarhYesYes
31Union TerritoryDadra and Nagar Haveli and Daman & DiuDamanNoNo
32Union TerritoryThe Government of NCT of DelhiDelhiYesYes
33Union TerritoryJammu & KashmirSrinagar-S, Jammu-WYesYes
34Union TerritoryLadakhLehNoNo
35Union TerritoryLakshadweepKavarattiNoNo
36Union TerritoryPuducherryPuducherryYesYes

Despite having explored some incredible regions, I can't help but feel humbled by how much more there is to see and experience in India. The remaining states and Union Territories beckon with their own unique offerings. In the coming years, I'm determined to embark on journeys that will take me to the unexplored corners of this diverse land. I want to witness the tranquil backwaters of Kerala, the vibrant festivals of West Bengal, the tribal culture of Chhattisgarh, and the scenic beauty of the Northeastern states.

India's diversity is not just geographical but also cultural, linguistic, and culinary. Each state and Union Territory tells a unique story, and I can't wait to add more chapters to my own Indian travel diary. With every journey, I aim to deepen my appreciation for this incredible country and its people, celebrating the unity in diversity that defines India.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

There's something undeniably captivating about wildlife documentaries that transport us to remote corners of the world, offering a front-row seat to the wonders of the natural world. Yesterday, I watched the first episode of "Animals Up Close with Bertie Gregory" on Hotstar, titled "Antarctic Killer Waves." From the moment I hit play, I was hooked. This show, with its exceptional direction, cinematography, and mesmerizing voiceover, took me on an unforgettable journey through the harsh, yet mesmerizing, Antarctic landscape.

A Visual Feast

One of the first things that struck me about this show was the impeccable cinematography. The visuals were nothing short of stunning, capturing the raw beauty of the Antarctic landscape in all its glory. From sweeping shots of icy horizons to close-ups of the wildlife, every frame was a work of art. The camera work brought out the true essence of this frozen world, making me feel like I was right there alongside Bertie Gregory, the show's host and wildlife filmmaker.

A Gripping Narrative

The voiceover narration in "Animals Up Close with Bertie Gregory" added depth and context to the breathtaking visuals. Bertie's storytelling skills are exceptional, and his passion for wildlife shines through in every word. He expertly weaves together the scientific facts, behavioral insights, and personal anecdotes, making the narrative both informative and emotionally engaging.

Intelligent Group Hunting

B1 killer whales, also known as Type B1 or Gerlache killer whales, are a distinct ecotype of killer whales found in the Southern Ocean surrounding Antarctica. These formidable apex predators are characterized by their striking appearance, with a bold black and white coloration and a distinct white eye patch behind each eye. What makes B1 killer whales particularly fascinating is their unique hunting strategies. They are known for their intelligence and remarkable cooperation in group hunting, often targeting prey such as Weddell seals and other marine mammals. Their hunting techniques, which include wave-washing and breaking ice floes, showcase their adaptability and ingenuity in this harsh and frigid environment. B1 killer whales are a testament to the incredible diversity of wildlife that thrives in the world's most extreme and remote regions.

The B1 killer whales and their intelligent hunting techniques. I was left utterly amazed by the footage of these apex predators working together in a coordinated effort to capture their prey, the Weddell seal. They used tactics like wave-washing, where they created waves to wash the seal off ice floes, and breaking the ice to isolate their prey. The sheer intelligence and teamwork displayed by these magnificent creatures left me in awe of the wonders of nature.

Animals Up Close with Bertie Gregory is an absolute must-watch for nature enthusiasts and wildlife lovers alike. The combination of exceptional direction, breathtaking cinematography, and Bertie Gregory's captivating storytelling make it a show that not only educates but also entertains. The intelligent group hunting techniques of the B1 killer whales serve as a poignant reminder of the incredible adaptations and behaviors that have evolved in the natural world.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Do you remember all the countries you've been to? For many of us, the answer might be a mixed bag of yes and no. Recently, I found myself in a similar situation, realizing that I couldn't recall every trip I'd taken since college. Determined to rekindle those cherished memories, I embarked on a journey of recollection, poring over the immigration stamps on my passports dating back to my undergrad years. What I discovered was a tapestry of experiences and adventures, a testament to the beauty and diversity of our world.

Reviewing my Travel Passport

Intrigued by the prospect of rekindling my travel memories, I meticulously organized a list of countries I had visited. Each entry brought back a flood of memories, from the bustling streets of Bangkok to the serene canals of Amsterdam. Here's a curated list of the 16 countries, in addition to my homeland, India, that I've had the privilege of exploring:

  1. United States
  2. United Kingdom
  3. Sweden
  4. Denmark
  5. Netherlands
  6. Iceland
  7. United Arab Emirates
  8. Spain
  9. Germany
  10. Italy
  11. Cyprus
  12. Thailand
  13. Malaysia
  14. Vietnam
  15. Jordan
  16. Nepal

The Diversity of Our World

As I gazed upon this list, I couldn't help but marvel at the incredible diversity of our world. From the dramatic landscapes of Iceland to the vibrant culture of Thailand, each country has left an indelible mark on my heart. It's a reminder of how fortunate I am to have experienced the rich tapestry of human existence, from bustling metropolises to remote villages.

A Desire to Travel Like a Local

While reviewing my travel history, I couldn't help but feel a renewed desire to explore and experience the world more intimately, like a local. It's one thing to visit famous landmarks, but it's another to immerse oneself in the culture, cuisine, and daily life of a place. There's something truly magical about connecting with people from different backgrounds and gaining a deeper understanding of their way of life.

Gratitude for the Opportunity to Travel

In closing, I am filled with immense gratitude for the opportunities that have allowed me to embark on these incredible journeys. Traveling has broadened my horizons, enriched my life, and provided a unique perspective on the beauty of our world. I look forward to future adventures, both near and far, with a heart full of curiosity and a longing to discover the wonders that await.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

As humans, we have a natural inclination to be self-centered. It's not necessarily a negative trait, but rather a fundamental aspect of our psychology. We are wired to be deeply focused on our thoughts, feelings, and moods, often making ourselves the center of our own universes. There is science behind our self-centered nature, including fascinating facts about how many of our thoughts are directed towards ourselves compared to others.

Understanding our Self-Centered Nature

1. The Default Mode Network (DMN): One of the key scientific insights into our self-centeredness comes from the study of the Default Mode Network, a collection of brain regions that are most active when our minds are at rest and not engaged in any specific external task. The DMN is responsible for self-referential thoughts, introspection, and daydreaming, highlighting our innate focus on ourselves.

2. The Spotlight Effect: Psychologists have observed a phenomenon known as the "spotlight effect". This is the tendency for individuals to believe that others are paying more attention to them than they actually are. In other words, we often overestimate how much others think about us, further emphasizing our self-centered perspective.

3. Thoughts about ourselves vs others: A Wandering Mind Is an Unhappy Mind - a research conducted by Harvard psychologists Matthew Killingsworth and Daniel Gilbert found that nearly 50% of our waking hours are spent mind-wandering, and a significant portion of these thoughts is self-centered. We are continually thinking about our past, present, and future experiences, our goals, desires, and how we are perceived by others.

Scientific facts about Self-Centered thoughts

- Self-Reference Effect: The self-reference effect is a cognitive bias that leads us to remember information better when it is related to ourselves. Studies have shown that information tied to our personal experiences and identity is processed more deeply and remembered more effectively.

- Social Media and Narcissism: The rise of social media platforms has amplified our self-centered tendencies. People often curate their online personas, posting about their achievements, interests, and personal lives. This digital self-presentation reflects our inherent desire for self-expression and validation.

- Mirror Neurons: Mirror neurons are brain cells that fire both when we perform an action and when we observe someone else performing that action. This neural mechanism enables us to empathize with others by simulating their experiences. However, it also highlights our self-centered nature, as our brains are inherently wired to understand others by relating their experiences to our own.

Our favorite subject is undoubtedly ourselves, and science has provided us with valuable insights into this inherent human trait. From the Default Mode Network to the spotlight effect, we are wired to prioritize our thoughts, feelings, and experiences. While self-centeredness isn't necessarily negative, it's essential to strike a balance between self-focus and empathy for others. Understanding the science behind our self-centered nature can help us navigate our interpersonal relationships and cultivate a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

When it comes to air travel, we've all heard our fair share of stories, both good and bad. So, when I booked a flight with Gulf Air from Delhi to Amman via Bahrain in late August 2023, I have to admit I had some reservations. Online reviews for Gulf Air were mixed. However, what unfolded during my journey left me pleasantly surprised, and I'm happy to share my positive experience.

A Clean and Neat Aircraft

As I boarded the Gulf Air flight in Delhi, my initial impressions were overwhelmingly positive. The aircraft was not only neat but also impeccably clean. It's a reassuring sight, especially considering the times we live in, to see an airline take hygiene and cleanliness seriously. The cabin crew greeted passengers with warm smiles and an eagerness to assist. This set the tone for what would turn out to be a delightful journey.

A Premium Flight Experience

Once settled in, I noticed that the seating was comfortable, and the legroom was more than adequate, even for a long-haul flight. The in-flight entertainment system (QR code based) offered a wide selection of movies and TV shows to keep passengers entertained throughout the journey. The meals served on board were also a highlight. The selection of dishes was impressive, and the quality of food surpassed my expectations. Gulf Air truly knows how to elevate the dining experience at 30,000 feet.

A Smooth Layover at Bahrain Airport

My flight itinerary had a layover at Bahrain International Airport, and I was pleasantly surprised by the airport's modern and efficient facilities. The airport was clean, well-organized, and offered a variety of dining and shopping options to keep travelers occupied during their layovers. The airport staff were helpful and made the transit experience hassle-free. It was a brief but enjoyable stopover that made the journey even more pleasant.

Jaipur Indo Asian at Bahrain Airport

Jaipur Indo Asian at Bahrain Airport

In the end, my journey from Delhi to Amman via Bahrain with Gulf Air was a pleasant surprise. It proved that sometimes, online reviews don't tell the whole story, and you have to experience it for yourself to truly appreciate it.

The combination of a clean and well-maintained aircraft, a premium flight experience, and a smooth layover at Bahrain Airport made this journey with Gulf Air one to remember. It's reassuring to know that there are airlines out there committed to delivering a comfortable and enjoyable travel experience.

So, if you're considering Gulf Air for your next travel, I wholeheartedly recommend it based on my positive experience.