This weekend, I attended the baby shower of my friends Suresh and Aakriti. It was a simple yet meaningful gathering of close friends and family, celebrating the upcoming arrival of their first child. Baby showers, though originally a Western tradition, have become common in India, serving as a way for parents-to-be to share their joy and excitement before the baby arrives. The event was filled with lighthearted games, gifts, and conversations about parenting—reminding everyone present of the responsibilities and joys that come with raising a child.
The baby shower was held at their home, decorated with soft colors and small touches that made the space feel warm and welcoming. Unlike larger Indian weddings or festivals, this was an intimate affair, with only their closest friends and relatives in attendance. There was good food, laughter, and well-wishes for the expecting parents. The highlight was when Suresh and Aakriti cut a cake, symbolizing their readiness for the new phase of their lives. It was a reminder that while babies bring immense happiness, they also require patience, effort, and a shift in priorities.
In India, baby showers often blend Western customs with local traditions. Some families include rituals like godh bharai, where the mother-to-be is showered with blessings and gifts. At this event, however, the focus was more on modern celebrations—games like guessing the baby’s birth date and parenting advice from experienced friends. What stood out was how supportive everyone was, offering not just gifts but also reassurance that parenting, though challenging, is a journey no one has to face alone. Suresh and Aakriti seemed both excited and slightly nervous, which is natural for first-time parents.
As the afternoon ended, I found myself thinking about how such celebrations mark more than just the arrival of a child—they signify the beginning of a lifelong commitment. Babies change everything: sleep schedules, free time, even the dynamics between partners. Yet, despite the exhaustion and adjustments, most parents say it’s worth it. To Suresh and Aakriti, I wish all the best as they prepare for this new chapter. May their days ahead be filled with as much joy as this baby shower was, and may they find strength in the support of those around them.