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(DAY 949) Saturday evening cricket with neighbors

· 4 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Every Saturday evening turns into a small ritual when the ground near the society fills up with a mix of people carrying bats, balls, and the easy laughter that comes before the start of a game. It is not an organized league or a formal practice session, just a gathering of neighbors who decide to play cricket together. The group ranges from teenagers who are just beginning to understand the rhythm of the game to men in their fifties who have been playing since school days. That range of ages gives the game its shape, where enthusiasm from the young balances against patience and caution from the older players. It is not about competition in the usual sense but about keeping the game alive as a shared activity. The predictable routine of setting aside Saturday evenings for cricket makes it feel like a fixture in the week, something everyone expects and looks forward to.

The game itself is less about following strict rules and more about finding a balance that allows everyone to participate. Overs are shortened, boundaries are improvised, and teams are mixed in a way that keeps the mood light. A 16 year old trying to bowl fast to a player twice his age becomes part of the humor of the match, not a contest. Someone who has not picked up a bat in years gets cheered just for connecting with the ball. The energy is steady and cooperative, with players adjusting their pace to include rather than exclude. This flexible way of playing allows cricket to remain enjoyable even when the skills are uneven across the group. In a way, it reminds me that games can be stripped down to their essentials without losing their meaning.

These evenings also serve as one of the few times when people from the neighborhood gather in an unstructured way. Outside of festivals or society meetings, interactions usually remain limited to greetings or short conversations. Cricket stretches those moments into longer exchanges, first in the field and then afterwards when people stay back to talk. Teenagers who would otherwise be inside on their phones get drawn into conversations with people older than their parents. Retired professionals find themselves sharing tips with school students who are just beginning to plan their studies and careers. It is not that every discussion is profound, but the continuity of weekly contact creates familiarity that grows quietly over time.

For me, the appeal is less about fitness or skill improvement and more about the break it offers from routine. Saturday evenings carry their own weight after a week of work, and standing on the field changes the rhythm of the day. Watching the mix of ages makes me aware of how games can flatten differences. A ball hit towards the boundary is just a ball that everyone chases, whether the runner is in school or approaching sixty. In those moments, the roles and titles people carry during the week fall away. It becomes clear how rare such spaces are in modern life, where structured schedules often divide people by age, profession, or background.

The habit of gathering for cricket each week will probably continue as long as enough people show up and the field remains available. It does not require heavy planning or investment, just the willingness of people to step outside their homes and play. That simplicity is what makes it sustainable. The mix of energy, humor, and quiet competition ensures that no single age group dominates, and the game stays open to whoever wants to join. Even if one week the turnout is small or the match ends early due to light, the act of coming together becomes its own achievement. In a city where routines can become isolating, these Saturday evenings offer a reminder that play is not just for the young and that community can be built in small, consistent steps.