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(DAY 968) Diwali and the Joy of Togetherness

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Diwali always feels different when there are people to share it with. The lights, sweets, and decorations matter, but they gain meaning only through company. This year, as the festival begins, I’m reminded of how much the feeling of festivity depends on the people around you—family, friends, or even colleagues who carry the same excitement. The next three days promise a mix of familiar rituals and casual gatherings, and I find myself looking forward to them more than usual. There’s something grounding about being surrounded by people who share the same rhythm of celebration, the same pause in their otherwise busy routines. Diwali in that sense is less about the event and more about the shared slowing down.

The build-up to the festival has already started taking shape in small ways—the society lights going up, local markets buzzing late into the evening, and the constant background hum of planning who’s visiting whom. Even the workplace feels lighter, conversations shifting from deadlines to decorations and snacks. These transitions matter because they mark time in a way that the rest of the year doesn’t. Festivals like Diwali bring everyone onto a common wavelength, even if only briefly. When shared with a team, it turns into a collective reminder that beyond work, people still value connection. Small gestures—like sharing sweets, lighting diyas together, or just taking a break to talk—end up meaning more than formal celebrations.

At home, the preparations carry their own rhythm. Family gatherings tend to follow a predictable pattern—cleaning, cooking, exchanging gifts—but every year it feels slightly different because the people change. Kids grow older, new members join, and others return from far away, and those shifts redefine what the festival means. This year, I’m especially aware of that continuity. It’s easy to get caught up in logistics—what to buy, where to go—but when the lights come on in the evening and the house smells of food and incense, all of that fades into the background. The act of simply being together starts to matter most.

What I like most about Diwali is the brief window of stillness it creates in an otherwise fast calendar. The days leading up to it are always hectic, but once it begins, the sense of rush softens. Even people you barely know seem a bit more open, a bit more patient. The energy in cities like Gurgaon or Delhi shifts subtly—the same streets look brighter, and the same people seem to carry less weight. There’s a reminder in that mood about how community still matters, even when most of life feels fragmented into screens and schedules. Sharing that feeling, whether with family or the team at work, makes it more real.

The next few days will pass quickly, as they always do, but I’m hoping to stay present through them. Festivals like Diwali have a way of resetting attention—not by asking for reflection, but by creating moments worth remembering. It’s not about grand gestures or perfect photos, but about noticing small things: the light spilling from a balcony, the laughter over a shared meal, the sound of fireworks in the distance. These are simple, repeatable experiences, yet they define what festivity feels like. I’m looking forward to the next three days, not just for the celebrations themselves, but for the reminder that joy multiplies when shared, and that some of the best parts of Diwali are the quiet ones spent together.