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· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Building a product requires effort, iteration, and, most importantly, feedback. When creators test their work with close friends or early users, they often assume they are open to criticism. However, there is a difference between hearing feedback and truly listening to it. Many product builders, despite their best intentions, may dismiss subtle cues, partial objections, or hesitant suggestions because they are too attached to their vision. The real challenge lies in absorbing feedback in its entirety—not just the parts that align with existing assumptions.

One common mistake is filtering feedback through personal biases. When a friend tests an app, a website, or any product, their hesitation or minor complaints may seem insignificant at first. However, these small signals often point to deeper usability issues. Ignoring them because they don’t fit a preconceived notion of how the product should work leads to blind spots. True listening means registering not just the explicit complaints but also the pauses, the uncertainties, and the unspoken friction in the user’s experience. The most valuable feedback is often buried in what isn’t said directly.

Another difficulty is separating defensiveness from constructive processing. When someone points out flaws, the instinct is to explain why things are the way they are. This reaction, while natural, prevents deeper understanding. Instead of justifying design choices, it’s more useful to ask follow-up questions: What exactly felt off? When did confusion arise? Was there a moment of frustration? These details matter because they reveal gaps between the creator’s intent and the user’s actual experience. Without this level of engagement, feedback remains superficial.

The key to effective feedback absorption is treating it as data, not judgment. Every piece of input—whether positive, negative, or ambiguous—helps refine the product. The goal is not to please every tester but to identify recurring friction points. If multiple users stumble at the same step, that’s a signal worth investigating, even if the initial reaction is to defend the design. Listening closely means resisting the urge to interrupt, rationalize, or downplay concerns. Only then can feedback drive meaningful improvement.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

For years, Indians have purchased electronics, particularly iPhones and laptops, from the US due to significant cost savings. Even after accounting for foreign exchange fees, shipping, and customs duties, these products have traditionally been 12-15% cheaper than buying them locally. This price difference has made importing electronics a common practice, especially for high-value items where the savings justify the effort. However, recent changes in US trade tariffs may reduce this gap, making imports less beneficial for Indian consumers.

The US has periodically adjusted import tariffs on electronics, affecting both domestic prices and international demand. While these changes are primarily aimed at protecting local manufacturing or addressing trade imbalances, they indirectly influence global pricing. If tariffs increase the cost of electronics in the US, the price advantage for Indian buyers shrinks. Additionally, currency fluctuations and India’s own import duties further complicate the calculation, potentially eroding the savings that once made US purchases attractive.

A logical question arises: if iPhones and other electronics are now being manufactured in India, shouldn’t they be the cheapest here? While local production reduces import duties and logistics costs, global pricing strategies often prevent this from translating into lower consumer prices. Companies like Apple maintain uniform pricing structures across regions to protect profit margins, meaning Indian-made iPhones may still be priced similarly to those sold elsewhere. Additionally, taxes and supply chain costs in India can offset the benefits of local manufacturing, keeping retail prices high.

The shifting trade dynamics suggest that the era of substantial savings from US electronics purchases may be ending. For Indian buyers, this means reevaluating whether importing gadgets remains worthwhile. While certain niche products or limited-time discounts may still offer value, the broader trend points toward diminishing advantages. As manufacturing localizes, the hope is that competition and economies of scale will eventually drive prices down in India—but for now, the gap is narrowing, not disappearing.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

This weekend, I attended the baby shower of my friends Suresh and Aakriti. It was a simple yet meaningful gathering of close friends and family, celebrating the upcoming arrival of their first child. Baby showers, though originally a Western tradition, have become common in India, serving as a way for parents-to-be to share their joy and excitement before the baby arrives. The event was filled with lighthearted games, gifts, and conversations about parenting—reminding everyone present of the responsibilities and joys that come with raising a child.

The baby shower was held at their home, decorated with soft colors and small touches that made the space feel warm and welcoming. Unlike larger Indian weddings or festivals, this was an intimate affair, with only their closest friends and relatives in attendance. There was good food, laughter, and well-wishes for the expecting parents. The highlight was when Suresh and Aakriti cut a cake, symbolizing their readiness for the new phase of their lives. It was a reminder that while babies bring immense happiness, they also require patience, effort, and a shift in priorities.

In India, baby showers often blend Western customs with local traditions. Some families include rituals like godh bharai, where the mother-to-be is showered with blessings and gifts. At this event, however, the focus was more on modern celebrations—games like guessing the baby’s birth date and parenting advice from experienced friends. What stood out was how supportive everyone was, offering not just gifts but also reassurance that parenting, though challenging, is a journey no one has to face alone. Suresh and Aakriti seemed both excited and slightly nervous, which is natural for first-time parents.

As the afternoon ended, I found myself thinking about how such celebrations mark more than just the arrival of a child—they signify the beginning of a lifelong commitment. Babies change everything: sleep schedules, free time, even the dynamics between partners. Yet, despite the exhaustion and adjustments, most parents say it’s worth it. To Suresh and Aakriti, I wish all the best as they prepare for this new chapter. May their days ahead be filled with as much joy as this baby shower was, and may they find strength in the support of those around them.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

LinkedIn and Twitter have become carefully constructed worlds where influence is built through repetition, engagement hooks, and algorithmic familiarity. Recently, I spoke with an entrepreneur who transitioned into a fin-fluencer, leveraging AI-based products to grow a substantial following on LinkedIn. His approach was methodical—posting financial insights generated through GPT, framing them as personal wisdom, and distributing them at optimal times. What stood out was how surprised people were to discover that much of his advice came from AI. The reaction was strange, considering how normalized AI-generated content has become. Yet, there’s still an implicit trust in human-branded advice, even when the source is automated. The real challenge isn’t creation but distribution—consistently feeding the algorithm to stay visible.

The fin-fluencer’s strategy highlighted a broader trend: shallow but effective content dominates because platforms reward volume over depth. CustomGPT and similar tools make it easy to produce templated advice, financial rules, or generic motivational posts. The real differentiator isn’t the quality of the output but the ability to distribute it effectively. LinkedIn, in particular, thrives on recycled ideas packaged as personal experience. The same principles apply to Twitter, where threads perform well not because they are original but because they align with what the algorithm already favors. The tools are accessible; the real work lies in understanding platform mechanics and playing the distribution game.

What’s unsettling is how willingly audiences accept AI-generated content as human expertise. The fin-fluencer noted that engagement spikes when posts are framed as personal revelations rather than AI-assisted insights. This suggests that authenticity, or the illusion of it, still drives trust. Yet, the line between human and machine-generated content is blurring. People don’t seem to mind as long as the advice is useful, even if its origins are impersonal. The larger implication is that expertise is no longer about deep knowledge but about curation and presentation. The ability to repackage existing ideas convincingly matters more than creating something new.

The rise of AI-assisted content creation doesn’t mean human input is obsolete—it just shifts the focus. Distribution, timing, and framing become the real skills. The tools are secondary. Whether it’s financial advice or thought leadership, the winners are those who understand platform dynamics, not necessarily those with the best ideas. This creates a paradox: the more content floods these platforms, the harder it becomes to stand out, yet the formula for visibility remains predictable. The carefully constructed worlds of LinkedIn and Twitter reward those who play the game, not those who break the rules.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Knee pain is a common issue among individuals aged 60 and above, often leading to the need for knee replacement surgery. The primary cause of chronic knee pain in seniors is osteoarthritis, a degenerative joint disease where the protective cartilage that cushions the ends of bones wears down over time. The knee joint consists of bones, cartilage, ligaments, and synovial fluid, all working together to provide smooth movement. When the cartilage deteriorates, bones begin to rub against each other, causing inflammation, stiffness, and sharp, shooting pain. Other contributing factors include rheumatoid arthritis, previous injuries, obesity, and genetic predisposition. As the cartilage gap narrows, mobility becomes restricted, making even simple activities like walking or climbing stairs painful.

The structure of the knee plays a crucial role in understanding why pain occurs. The joint is supported by the femur, tibia, and patella, with menisci acting as shock absorbers between them. Over time, wear and tear reduce the thickness of these menisci, leading to bone-on-bone contact. Synovial fluid, which lubricates the joint, also decreases with age, further exacerbating friction. This mechanical stress results in inflammation, swelling, and chronic discomfort. In severe cases, bone spurs develop, worsening the pain. When conservative treatments like painkillers, physical therapy, and injections no longer provide relief, knee replacement surgery becomes necessary. The procedure involves replacing the damaged joint with an artificial implant, restoring mobility and reducing pain.

Preventing knee pain in old age requires proactive measures starting in middle age. Maintaining a healthy weight reduces stress on the knee joints, slowing cartilage degeneration. Regular low-impact exercises such as swimming, cycling, and walking strengthen the muscles around the knee, providing better support. Strength training focusing on quadriceps and hamstrings improves joint stability, while flexibility exercises like yoga prevent stiffness. Avoiding high-impact activities that strain the knees, such as running on hard surfaces or excessive squatting, can also help. A diet rich in anti-inflammatory foods, including omega-3 fatty acids, leafy greens, and nuts, supports joint health. Additionally, wearing proper footwear with good arch support minimizes unnecessary pressure on the knees.

For those already experiencing knee pain, early intervention can delay or prevent the need for surgery. Physical therapy improves range of motion and reduces discomfort, while assistive devices like braces or canes alleviate pressure. Over-the-counter pain relievers and corticosteroid injections offer temporary relief, but long-term solutions involve lifestyle adjustments. If surgery becomes inevitable, modern advancements in knee replacement ensure high success rates with faster recovery times. Post-surgery rehabilitation is critical, involving guided exercises to restore strength and flexibility. While knee replacement is a viable solution for severe arthritis, preventive care in earlier years remains the most effective way to maintain joint health and mobility in old age.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I have never been someone who paid much attention to beauty or skincare routines. Like most Indian men, I grew up with minimal exposure to personal care beyond the basics—soap, shampoo, and the occasional moisturizer. The idea of a structured grooming regimen always felt foreign, something that belonged to a different world. My mornings were simple: wash my face, brush my teeth, and get on with the day. The beauty aisle in stores was a place I walked past without a second glance, filled with products whose purposes I neither understood nor cared to explore.

That changed when Apple Support sent me a guide on cleaning AirPods, which mentioned micellar water as a recommended solution. I had heard the term before, mostly from my wife, who uses it as part of her skincare routine. Until then, I had assumed it was just another cosmetic product with a fancy name. The fact that Apple, a brand I trust for tech, endorsed it for cleaning electronics made me reconsider its utility. I read up about how micellar water works—its ability to attract dirt and oil without harsh chemicals. It struck me how little I knew about something so commonplace in many people’s lives.

The beauty industry is vast, with an overwhelming array of products, each serving a specific purpose. For someone like me, who has never engaged with it beyond the bare essentials, the segment feels daunting. The terminology, the variety, the claims—everything seems designed to appeal to those already invested in self-care rituals. Yet, there’s a reason why brands in this space command such loyalty and premium pricing. Trust, safety, and quality matter when products are applied to the skin, and the best companies have spent decades building that credibility. My brief interaction with micellar water made me realize how much I’ve overlooked simply because it wasn’t part of my world.

Now, after cleaning my AirPods with micellar water, I’m waiting to see if the shrill noise they’ve been making disappears. More than that, this small episode has made me curious about the broader beauty and personal care industry. It’s a sector that thrives on precision, science, and consumer trust—elements that resonate beyond just cosmetics. Maybe I’ll learn more about it, not because I plan to adopt an elaborate routine, but because understanding things outside my usual scope is always worthwhile. For now, though, I’ll settle for functional earbuds and the quiet satisfaction of having tried something new.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Today, as part of my birthday resolution, I decided to take a break from Instagram and Facebook. While I stopped using Facebook years ago, Instagram has remained a part of my daily routine—mostly for sharing workout updates, exchanging memes with friends, and occasionally scrolling through reels. The decision wasn’t driven by frustration or a dramatic need to disconnect, but rather by curiosity. I want to observe how my habits, focus, and time allocation change without the passive consumption of social media. The goal is to see how long I can go without it and whether the absence makes any noticeable difference.

The first thing I expect to change is the automatic scrolling. Normally, idle moments—waiting for a meeting, standing in line, or taking a short break—default to Instagram. Without it, I anticipate filling those gaps differently: perhaps reading, observing my surroundings, or just letting my mind rest. I’ve noticed in the past how even brief social media checks can fracture concentration, making it harder to return to tasks with clarity. If that distraction is removed, I wonder whether my focus will improve or if I’ll simply replace it with another form of stimulation.

Another aspect I’m watching is how I share updates. Posting workouts on Instagram has become a habit, almost like a public accountability tool. Without it, I’ll need to see whether my motivation to exercise changes when the validation of likes is gone. Similarly, memes and articles I would have shared immediately will now either be saved or left unshared. I suspect that without the instant gratification of engagement, my interactions will become more intentional. The reflex to document and broadcast might fade, making way for more deliberate communication.

This experiment starts today, and I have no fixed endpoint in mind. It’s not a permanent departure, just an observation. I’m curious to see whether the absence of these platforms leads to meaningful shifts in my daily life—less distraction, more presence, or even just a clearer sense of why I used them in the first place. Whether the break lasts a week or longer, the act of stepping back itself feels like a worthwhile exercise in awareness.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Today is my birthday, and I am spending it with my family. My parents have traveled from Jaipur to be here with me and Swati, which makes the day more meaningful. Birthdays are often seen as personal milestones, but for me, they are an opportunity to reflect on the people who have shaped my life. Having my parents around brings a sense of comfort and familiarity, something that is harder to come by as life gets busier. We stepped out for a family dinner, a simple yet meaningful way to mark the occasion. There is something about sharing a meal that makes moments feel more significant, especially when surrounded by those who matter most.

Gratitude is the prevailing emotion today. Birthdays tend to prompt reflection, and this year, I find myself appreciating the small things—health, stability, and the ability to spend time with loved ones. It is easy to get caught up in daily routines and forget how much these ordinary moments matter. Celebrating with family reinforces how fortunate I am to have their support. Birthdays are also a reminder of how quickly time passes, making it important to acknowledge the present rather than always looking ahead.

I want to thank everyone who has reached out with birthday wishes. Messages from friends, colleagues, and acquaintances add warmth to the day. Even a brief note can make a difference, and I appreciate the time people took to send their thoughts. Birthdays are one of those rare occasions when connections feel more intentional, and I do not take that for granted. It is also a good reminder to reciprocate the same kindness when others celebrate their milestones.

As the day winds down, I am left with a quiet sense of contentment. Birthdays do not need grand gestures to feel special. Sometimes, it is the presence of family, a good meal, and the recognition of another year lived that makes it worthwhile. Today was simple, but it was exactly what I needed. Here’s to another year, hopefully filled with more learning, growth, and meaningful moments.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

My AirPods Pro were a gift from my sister-in-law, and initially, they lived up to Apple’s reputation—reliable noise cancellation, good sound quality, and a comfortable fit. But recently, the left AirPod developed a shrill, high-pitched noise, especially when I run. The sound is so sharp that it renders the earbud unusable. I’ve tried all the standard fixes: resetting them, cleaning the contacts, adjusting the ear tips, and switching between noise cancellation modes. Nothing worked. It’s frustrating when a premium product, especially one given as a thoughtful gift, fails unexpectedly.

The issue isn’t just the inconvenience—it’s the lack of durability. I didn’t expect these to last forever, but I assumed they’d hold up longer than they have. For a high-end product, the AirPods Pro should offer better longevity. I’ve used cheaper earbuds (Samsung Earbuds) that lasted years without such problems. The fact that this happened without any physical damage or misuse makes it worse. It feels like a manufacturing defect, something that shouldn’t happen with Apple’s reputation for quality.

I reached out to Apple Support, hoping for a quick resolution or replacement. Their response followed the usual script—troubleshooting steps I’d already tried, then a suggestion to visit an Apple Store. While they weren’t unhelpful, I was surprised that a premium product would fail this soon and that the support process didn’t feel more accommodating. If Apple positions itself as a leader in tech, its products should last, and its service should be more proactive when they don’t.

This experience has made me hesitant about future Apple audio purchases. When a product fails prematurely, especially one that was a gift, it’s disappointing. I’ll likely look at other brands for my next pair of earbuds, prioritizing durability and customer service. For now, I’m left with an expensive pair of AirPods where only one side works properly—a letdown for what was supposed to be a high-quality device.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Summer nights bring a certain stillness that makes late walks after dinner particularly refreshing. The heat of the day has faded, and the streets are quieter, making it easier to move without the usual distractions. Leaving the phone and earphones behind forces a different kind of awareness. Instead of music or podcasts filling the silence, the sounds of the neighborhood take over—conversations from balconies, the occasional bark of a dog, or the rustle of leaves in a light breeze. There is no agenda, no need to rush, just the simple act of walking with no destination in mind.

The absence of a screen or headphones shifts attention outward. Without the constant pull of notifications, the mind settles into observing rather than reacting. People sitting outside their homes, children playing despite the late hour, street vendors packing up—these small scenes become noticeable in a way they usually aren’t. Walking without distractions creates space for unstructured thought, letting the mind process the day without forcing it. The rhythm of steps becomes a kind of meditation, steady and predictable, allowing thoughts to surface and pass without urgency.

There is also a practical benefit to walking late in the evening. After a full meal, movement aids digestion, and the cooler air makes the effort minimal. Unlike daytime walks, where the sun can be oppressive, the night offers relief. The body adjusts to the slower pace, muscles loosening, breath steadying. A shower afterward washes away the lingering heat of the day, making sleep come easier. The combination of movement, fresh air, and a clear head sets the stage for better rest, something that is often hard to achieve during busy weeks.

Late night walks are not about exploration or exercise in the traditional sense. They are a way to disconnect from the noise of the day and reconnect with the immediate surroundings. The streets look different at night—less crowded, less hurried. There is no need to fill the time with anything other than walking. The simplicity of it is what makes it valuable. No special equipment, no strict routine, just an open-ended pause before the day ends. It’s a habit that costs nothing but offers a quiet kind of clarity.