Limited time we have
Everyone has the same time in the day. Passage of time is a crucial aspect of our perception of reality. Some basic facts which I tend to forget regularly:
- A year is equal to ~8800 hours
- I sleep ~2600 hours (30% of the time)
The remaining 6200 hours are the experience of reality. Relishing the awake hours is what brings the most joy, satisfaction, happiness to me.
Attention
Life on autopilot is default for us with the devices, worries. Giving full attention to the act in hand is difficult but important. It is what makes me feel in the moment and a sense of completeness. A few things I have felt in state of full attention:
- During conversations about work, I add more value and solve problems better.
- During time with loved ones, I see their perspective better and feel more empathy.
- In a day, I feel better if I am spending time
mindfullyinstead of being stuck in busy bandwagon or infinity pools.
Being careful with time
We are all influenced by external forces while lead us to commit time to topics, problems and activities. Mindfully spending your time is the biggest gift you give to yourself on a daily basis.
The lapses in being
mindfulhappen in chunks. I fall off from this mindset for a full day or week. It usually happens along with travel or change of environment. Attention and time become more important and having a routine to reflect upon it is something I would like to include in my schedule.